Posted by: Kimberly | Tue Aug 2, 2011

Wedding Bliss

My fiance and I have shared our story to anyone who will read or listen. I will share my version.

I used to write a political blog through a publication which I enjoyed. I made many friends through the years and have kept loosely associated with some of them. My moniker was ‘Str8_talk.’ (Not associated w/McCain!) One of the other bloggers I met was Jonathan Alligood, known as ‘Good Al.’ I occasionally read his posts. I had gone through a very anguished  relationship and I wasn’t looking to marry again or date anyone. At first I was adamant that I wouldn’t marry again but later I said “God will have to show me if I am to marry again, then I will know it is meant to be.”

I was writing from Kansas City, MO when I first encountered Jonathan through blogging. We found out that each of us were on Facebook, so we connected in that venue just before I moved in with my daughter in VA. I was looking to converse with someone who shared similar beliefs to mine. We shared what we both learned or believed in our faith in God’s Word and we had some very lengthy discussions on the Bible. We agreed on just about everything and we grew in the Lord together.

Fast forward to my son-in-love’s transfer to North Carolina, which is Jonathan’s home state. Jonathan had shared with me about a church in a suburb of Jacksonville, NC. I really enjoyed what he said about their beliefs and it felt right in my spirit (the spirit that I received through my salvation). I told him I would visit there because I would be looking for a home church.

And now you Gentiles have also heard the truth, the Good News that God saves you. And when you believed in Christ, he identified you as his own by giving you the Holy Spirit, whom he promised long ago. Ephesians 1:13 (NLT)

The day I walked into Kingdom Life Fellowship (then known as Praise Tabernacle) I knew I had a church home. It was good, the worship and the message were phenomenal and I knew I had found rest for my soul. I am not a bystander though and I plugged in wherever I could. I worked a couple of times through the food bank and I thoroughly enjoyed meeting those people. If it weren’t for the generosity of my daughter I might have been one of ‘those people.’ I also helped with other areas, and served two days in the soup kitchen. I want to share the joy and peace God has given me. I love people of all types, isn’t that what we are encouraged to do?

The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is upon me, for the Lord has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has sent me to comfort the brokenhearted and to proclaim that captives will be released and prisoners will be freed. Isaiah 61:1

I met another guy through a different ministry who asked me “What are you looking for in a man?” I told him “I am Not looking for a man, I am in a relationship with God and it is the most important relationship in my life.” I have continued to seek God first in my life. I wasn’t looking for a relationship or someone to marry. I just wanted to know God more; if and when I was meant to be involved with someone God would show me.

In December, I met Jonathan face to face. In the past, he had been at our church to hear teachings and the theatrical performances by the drama team. He came to see a play that our drama team put on which I was privileged to be a part. The next day he came over and visited for a few hours. By this time we were good friends and we shared more of the Lord. We knew each other better than friends we’ve had for most of our lives because we had a strong spiritual connection.

In January, I attended a seminar at his church three hours away with another friend from my church. This was not to see him but to continue on my spiritual journey and learn more about God. There were two sessions on Saturday and one on Sunday morning. During the praise and worship portion of the service, I felt like God told me “Jonathan will be your husband.” It was quite a shocking revelation but I had said all along that God would show me who, when, and IF I was to marry. I said “Okay God, you will have to show him as well, then I will know it is from you.” I didn’t change in the way I acted towards Jonathan but God was working on my heart in how I viewed him, moving from friend to eventual partner in life and ministry. I continued to be his friend, knowing that if God was in it, He would work on his heart as well.

Now may the God of peace make you holy in every way, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ comes again. God will make this happen, for he who calls you is faithful. 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24 

Obviously, if you know us or looked at the title, you know that God did start revealing to Jonathan that I might be the woman for his life. In April I mentioned to Jonathan that I wanted to go somewhere and shoot some photography. I asked his advice on the state parks since NC is his home state. He told me he might not be available on that Saturday and I asked him why he said this. I hadn’t been hinting for him to go, I just wanted his perspective as a native Carolinian. He said he needed to get out and he would like to go. We spent the day together at Raven Rock State Park hiking the beautiful trails with the dogwood in peak bloom. That evening we went to an authentic Italian restaurant where the song playing when we walked in was “I Can Only Imagine.” This seemed to set the tone for the day. 

        

After dinner, we went back to the park for more hiking. We ended up getting caught in a thunderstorm together and walked back in utter darkness except for the occasional lightning strikes and light from the small flashlight which I had grabbed before we set out on our second hike. We managed to get back to our cars by making all the right turns.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take. Proverbs 3:5-6

Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

We have had many dates since April and feel very blessed to be in each other’s lives! On July 23rd, Jonathan proposed to me at my church. We will be getting married on August 20th! We look forward to a shared ministry together.

You may read Jonathan’s version of our story here: 

Good Al is Getting Married to Kimberly


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  1. Kimberly and Jonathan – my heartfelt congratulations to you both.

    Kimberly, the account of your friendship leading up to your being married is inspiring. It is nothing short of breathtaking how the Lord works in our lives and will work in you and Jonathan’s life together.

    Final comment — cool beans!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    • Thank You Diane! God can work in all of our lives, we just have to allow him to.

      I agree – Cool Beans!!! ; )

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  2. Thank you so much Diane. You know the first positive comments I got when I posted on Townhall in late 2008 were posted by you “Mrs. AL” and Kimberly “str8talk.” I had been on Yahoo 360 and was not used to a whole lot of negativity on my posts. As soon as I got on TH, a troll posted some stuff that kind of rattled my cage. I felt much better when I got encouraging comments from you two, Bobbie Kelley, and others that soon became the Band of Bloggers. God bless you Diane.

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    • You are most kind, Jonathan. You and Kimberly share a similarity of Spirit. Clearly a great match ‘made in heaven.’

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  3. All I can say is….YAY! So glad that I have been able to witness much of this story and I look forward to all the beautiful things that unfold from this union. I am so happy for you, my friends! I am also thanking God that I will be able to be there for the wedding! See you soon!

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    • YAY is right Mercy! I am excited that you will be here also! When I saw on your blog that you were returning early, I selfishly thought “Yippee! Mercy will be at our wedding!” I prayed for a sweet departure, God’s peace, and safe travels during intercessory prayer last night. Looking forward to seeing you!!

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  4. Enjoyed reading both versions. Best of luck! But somehow I don’t think you’ll need it. ; )

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    • Thanks Tim! I agree, I think God will be better than luck. ; )

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  5. Shalom Kimberly…

    Although a stranger around here, congratulations to both of you!

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    • Not so much a stranger, we’ve had some good discussions. Thank you Josiah!

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  6. CONGRADULATIONS YOUS HAVE ELPED ME GROW and Beeee Stretched
    Yous have Beautiful Hearts for Agreeing for Gods Will !!!!!!!1 Praise God I have been able to witness yous. I Thank God for the Honor!!!

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    • Mary – You are a blessing to me! Love you much!!

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  7. What a Blessed story. Thank you for sharing this. I am so happy for you two!!!! Connie

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  8. How awesome is our God?! He grows us, speaks to us and makes our ways straight. What a great example of patience and seeking Him first. Praying that as you minister to each other and the world that His love will be spread. Great stories, both!! Congrats!

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    • God is Awesome Tom!! He makes the path level and prepares them before us, we just have to follow His path. Thank you for your well wishes! So glad you enjoyed our stories.

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